'Actually, I do work here': Campus aide gives young school employee a hard time for looking 'too young' to work there, then abandons job without giving notice

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    New campus aide keeps mistaking me for a student M
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    For context: I work at a middle school as a para-educator and my supervisor (spEd coordinator + assistant principal) would ping pong me between spEd and genEd. I was mistaken as a student during my first month working since I didn't get my work badge until a month after picture day. Towards the end of the school year, I stopped wearing it since the staff are familiar with me.
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    I'm 5'3 and an elder zoomer (25F). The students have colored hair and so do I. They wear uniform but baggy dic are in. Some of the students look older than me cause of how they do their makeup. I love wearing my dark cargo pants and sometimes the campus aides would have to do a double take when they see me to make sure it wasn't a student ditching a class.
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    Recently they hired new campus aides and one of them keeps thinking I'm a student. She would ask for a hall pass when I'm on my breaks. She didn't believe me for her first week there because "you're so short. You look young. You try too hard to look younger than you are."
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    My "I DO WORK HERE" moment was when I was on my way to sign in at the front office. Homegirl was going to make a beeline towards me until my supervisor intersected and needed to speak to me briefly. After she decided to be a big and asked me who that was and I told her that was the big boss and needed me to cover for another para. She let up after that and we
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    haven't spoken since TL;DR: I am a school para (and aide) for genEd and spEd classes. New campus aide mistakes me for a student every time I leave the class. No badge worn cause of staff familiarity until new policy started enforcing it. Campus aide backed off when I told her my supervisor needed me to cover for
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    another para. She ended up abandoning her job without warning EDIT: Yeah so, the badge. I started wearing it since we got back from our break. We have new ones now cause the staff ones look exactly like the students so there's "STAFF" under our pic in bold. We have a new admin here that just
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    started so now everyone has their badges now. The aide was a December hire but now it's January and she's not back. EDIT 2: A question I've been seeing more frequently is "why don't you put more effort into looking professional so it doesn't happen?" As ive mentioned, I am also a spEd para. For this job
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    position you don't need to put it a lot of effort into dressing nice because of the physical aspects of the job. It can get REALLY dirty since I'm tasked with toileting, so it's encouraged to dress more casually rather than business casual/teacher-core. There are also staff who do not dress business casual and have colored hair, piercings, and tattoos so it seemed like I was prob singled out by the campus aide.
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    The aide: she was a December hire but she ended up quitting. Heard through the grapevine from one of the other campus aides that she's been blatantly clapping back at students and also mistaken another staff (also a fellow para) as a student. As far as I know, she made a student cry and that lead to a parent coming to the school and wanting to intervene. She was supposed
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    to go through the school's disciplinary process after getting written up but given that she hasn't shown up to work without putting in a notice, she basically abandoned her job and quit.
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    SPELETOM Spelltomes 2 days ago My very first day as a teacher an older teacher screamed at me as I got out of my car for 1). Having a beard (students aren't allowed facial hair) and 2) parking in the faculty parking. She did this literally 3 more times that school year after I had already explained to her I WORK at the school. 502 Reply Share
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    kayt3000 2 days ago I would be livid if this is how a teacher greets a child. I get kids can be ds but if you don't know the kid why in the hell would you approach anyone, let alone a suspected student like that. I would have made it my personal mission to make that lady's life hell. Haha 349 Reply Share
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    KSknitter 2 days ago As someone who also has been in your situation, I would bring up with your boss that you worry about her memory if it happens again. Be extra nice to her, but mention that after the 3rd time, it seems like she actually does not remember which is a safety concern when working with kids.
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    Don't make sound like it malicious, but that she might need a doctor's note that her memory is actually in tact. If it keeps happening after that start sending emails when it comes up to your boss. 522 Reply Share
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    nerdgirl71 2 days ago This is the reason I stopped subbing at the high school. 47 ♡ Reply Share
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    OhNoNotAgain1532 2 days ago I was a student in college late 20's and into my 30's. The kids just out of high school thought I was their age. It is irritating. The people my age refused to interact with me and the young adults didn't understand me in any way. Only the instructors were very friendly - I assume because they had the info about my age.
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    mynameisnotjennifer1 · 1 day ago My aunt was 4,9". She worked as a gym teacher and at one point was physically dragged into the office by a male teacher assuming she was a student. I think she was too stunned to speak and since this was the 70s, there weren't as many restrictions to being physical with students or your fellow employees.
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    iesharael 2 days ago Ah I know this situation well. I'm 25F and just barely 5ft. Good aging runs on my moms side to the point my granny didn't get a single grey hair until she was 77. I have some greys but my brown hair has natural highlights so they blend in well. I also have pale skin and large eyes and my bit of extra weight makes my face softer. My voice is naturally higher pitch. My wardrobe doesn't help given I pretty much
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    only wear graphic tees and my work pants! When I do wear a jacket it's a varsity style one from one of my fandoms. People always think I'm 15. Every. Dang. Time. People always think my dad is my grandpa. Even back in school teachers would tell me my grandpa was there instead of my dad. I always had fun saying "my grandpa is dead" since it's true and creeped them out.
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    I've had lots of old people at my job at a library sit there yelling at me that I should be in school. "Do you think you'll amount to anything ditching school for a minimum wage job??" 1 im a college graduate. 2 you have to be over 18 to work at our library because we handle contracts. 3 I make above minimum wage :3 3 ↓ Reply Share

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